Deal Breaker: “I Date you, not your friends” by Tiy Hampton

 A relationship is between two people. Lately you’ve been feeling as if you’re in a relationship with him, and his friends. Your boiling point is reaching explosion at the fact every time you turn around your man’s friends are there too. It’s valid at this point; your man has to realize he’s with you and not you and his friends. If he doesn’t get the point soon, this will be your deal breaker. 

The problem isn’t that your man is hanging with his friends. The deal breaker is there hasn’t been any alone time with him. Simple things as going to the movies and going out for dinner, is now a group outing. It wasn’t an overnight change, it happened gradually over time.

When the change began happening, it was questions like “Babe, mike is going through some personal stuff, is it okay if he comes out with us tonight?” Harmless right? Wrong, what happens when your boo’s man is there after you come home from work, everyday? It’s up to your man to tell his friend the deal.


 The worst part of this deal breaker, is that it feels as if it’s due to other people. You wanted nothing to come in between the two of yall, you even thought a compromise would had been reached. At this point, after numerous times of being uncomfortable with this situation, it’s time he has decided, his friends or you. It’s clear what you have decided.


Author: Tiy Hampton

20 something year old New Yorker, that will make a difference. Open minded, talkative, only child. Shopping, traveling and food are my favorite. God first. I do radio, I model, I write, I report on events and conduct interviews. I believe you must do what you love in order to truly live. #ForTheLove

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